After the fashion show fitting and light downtown try-on sampler at a local t-shirt shop for Burtonian fashions of the black and white striped genre, my tall fashionably correct and stunning friend and I basked in our overall loveliness at a local vegetarian eatery for some model soup and a big piece of black berry pie (model approved).
In thinking about the guy working at the T-shop, I asked “Do you think he is single?”
“No, I don’t think so,” she said with an added laugh. “He wasn’t hitting on me, so I have a hunch he’s committed. I know that sounds so bad…”
“But it’s SO true,” I said. “You’re like a barometer of singleness.”
To: Topo Ranch, Boulder
Sent: Mon, April 11, 2011 5:31:38 PM
Subject: sunday stripes
Hi! this past Sunday evening I ventured into the boulder store before dinner with a friend to try on that amazing long striped dress in the window. And while it made me look like Cindy Lou Who of Whoville and I could make two outfits with it if I hemmed it, the guy that was working there that night was really nice, funny and cute.
Is he single?
Hope you had a rad sunny Monday.
:) Ali
What to do in relationship?
It’s not about tongue and technique – per se – it’s about what happens when you meet someone an the same point in the space-time continuum and you touch. How does this dynamic play out (and within)? And, do you ever really know the other – or do you simply play in the space between with your own reflection or an illusion of who’s in front of you?
A Story
Place: coffee shop
Time: Valentines Day, late afternoon EST
Cast of characters:
3 men at nearby table (#3 was very up on Lady Gaga)
A Girl
A Boy
The scene: what transpired was a discussion about Valentines worth eavesdropping in on:
Man 1: “When I was dating, every day was valentines day.”
Enter girl: she sits down. obviously looking around for someone.
Enter boy: boy comes over with small white box with pink ribbon.
Man 3: “Hey check this out…” (watching as boy gives girl the box)
All three Men turn.
Man 2: (stops mid-turn) “Only let me know to turn around when there is something to see…”
Man 3: “But he gave her a valentine… Spring has sprung and love is in the air.”
Man 2: “Love is always in the air.”
(* * * Footnotes: Estimated avg. men’s age = 70, and holding at awesome.)
She headed to the climbing gym to spend lunchtime on the rocks.
While she was waiting at the front desk to sign up for her membership, she noticed the route setters reworking the wall across from her. Their rugged landscape added beauty to the scenery indoors, and captivated her gaze for a moment whilst one stunning adonis effortlessly removed the t-shirt covering a torso sculpted by a devotion to his craft. It would be a lie to say she was not rendered breathless for an instant, or five.
And when her wits returned to filling out the form in front of her, she couldn’t help but wonder if that was all part of the marketing.
#beautifullystrategic
In alignment with my theory of “be amazing together,” perhaps this is the mystical image-feeling behind it:
“The sun never says to the earth,
‘You owe me.’
Look what happens with a love like that.
It lights up the whole sky.”
- Hafiz
Everyday is a day for love – whether you have a significant other in your lifespace as a perpetual reflection of that or if you fly solo. Regardless of who’s in your orbit, you are a whole being. Complete unto yourself and lacking nothing.
While the singularity of one’s love-life can impede that sense of innate completeness, practice good self love by writing yourself a love letter of all the things you love about you.
Your glowing heart will thank you.
(I love it when you smile like that.)
Black and white version, with accent, fedora and perhaps a cigar: “Can’tcha see I’m ova da moon for ya baby and da sky’s da limit?”
For those that dream in color, with accent: “…I will have to tell you: you have bewitched me, body and soul, and I love, I love, I love you. I never wish to be parted from you from this day on.”
Do you subscribe to The Daily Love? (I highly recommend it.)
Mastin’s voice is always humming the right tune of the uni-verse, these these were some lovey gems from today’s fortifying email:
“The purpose of relationship is not to have another who might complete you ,but to have another with whom you might share your completeness.” – Neale Donald Walsch
“The new female and the new male are partners on a journey of spiritual growth. They want to make the journey. Their love and trust keep them together. Their intuition guides them. They consult with each other. They are friends. They laugh a lot. They are equals .That is what a spiritual partnership is: a partnership between equals for the purpose of spiritual growth.”- Gary Zukav
