Monthly Archives: November 2009

What’s love got to do with it

Posted on 11/30/2009 by Ali

With all of the mindfulness in relationships that I’ve seen/heard/read lately, it all makes me fully realize that healthy relationships pose all of the lessons for self growth. Any lessons not learned in past relationships, and left unreconciled, will be … Continue reading →

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Catch me if you can

Posted on 11/30/2009 by Ali

“I don’t get it,” she said. “I’ve never been asked out. I mean, am I unapproachable? I’m adorable, not a knockout, I can’t imagine that would be an issue…” “It’s not that.” he said. “You’ve always been amazingly independent and … Continue reading →

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And all that jazz

Posted on 11/30/2009 by Ali

What would happen if we looked at relationships through the lens of the jazz-improv model? Something along the lines where one starts playing and the other plays back, and visa versa, in some randomly, off-the-cuff, yet seemingly harmonious way towards … Continue reading →

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to die by your side is such a heavenly way

Posted on 11/30/2009 by Ali

Not typically an author applied to the workings of strictly human relationships, but a bit apropo: “Breakdown provokes a space of possibility precisely because things don’t work smoothly anymore.” – Donna J. Haraway

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